a full time artist, stepmother, radio personality, and mom to an energetic Chug dog tries to get through the days without committing a felonious act. My life is a rickety Zen circus.
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a full time artist, stepmother, radio personality, and mom to an energetic Chug dog, tries to get through the days without committing a felonious act. My life is a rickety Zen circus. ____________________________________________________________________
Thursday, May 02, 2013
make mine rose colored
I am so excited today! My friend Mary (who's feet don't touch the ground, i swear) will be in town briefly! There are some people who make you be a better self. She is one of them. i don't know how she does it - her life is no less stressful then anyone else's, yet she handles it with grace. me? a rickety zen circus. sometimes graceful, sometimes it seems like a ball of chaos like PigPen in Charlie Brown. There have been role models of this calm, grace, trust-that-it-will-work-out women sent to my life on a consistent basis, but it's only recently that I can look back and see the beautiful daisy chain of them all. and i think maybe it's time for me to carry the torch, as well. after weeks of number crunching, husband has come to see that there is no financial way to get a boat. it breaks my heart to see his disappointment, but we will take the next year to get our war chest built up so he can walk in with a briefcase of loot and sail away. till then, i'll have to be his dream boat.ok - time to shower & pick Mary up. filter well, my friends!
Dear Remarkable Girl,
When you wake up tomorrow morning, sweet friend, beside your bed will be all of the different pairs of glasses that you get to choose to put on to see your world through for the day. It is amazing how this very important decision changes everything, and deciding to put on glasses of truth, optimism, goodness and gratitude will make everything more beautiful, more bearable and ever more fun.
The flip side is that we can all choose to put on glasses of fear, pessimism, anger, resentment and dread too -- and our whole day and everything we see and do will be seen through that kind of filter. Once again, it is amazing how this one important decision at the beginning of the day can change the way we see and experience EVERYTHING.
Soooo beautiful girl, which glasses will you choose to put on? Remember that you can also choose to put down the yucky glasses and put on the good ones at any point in the day, and remember remember remember that when the day is over, put it all away and just BE. Reflect on the beauty of the day and just BE.