#1...You will always find what you are looking for. Look for the good, and you will find it. Look for the bad, and you will find that.
#2...Always always trust yourself to make the best and most rightest decisions for yourself when it comes to the Self things. no one else can do it for you. do not be afraid. and refuse to make those decisions for anyone else.
#3...The best words to hear are simply "I'm so sorry." Period. do not let someone else's time of need become your opportunity to tell your story. and along those lines, don't ask what you can do. just do it if you feel it. (and chicken soup goes a long way.)
so that's it for now. diva is being her old self...leaping for her leash, running the trails...as if to prove it was the best day of her life. i know it's mine.