i think what's kept me chasing the rabbit is that i was never raised or taught to know how to make good decisions…what goes into the process? the pros, the cons, the nebulous maybes. So when i'm faced with a Life Decision, i tend to weigh things out to the nth degree. which makes me an excellent producer or Life Coach or organizer, but makes me feel overwhelmed in my own life. yes, it's true - i can cut through the bull doodie in your situation…i can see with a laser light precision the black and the white. and it may be that i need more definitives in my life right now…i need to know THIS or THAT will be the case before i can point my arrow toward the target i choose. and meanwhile, stop trying to drive a car with no wheels. figuratively speaking.